Why guys can have sex without love but ladies can't ?

I am really thinking this question long ago....

when i am in my teenage life... why guys can

have sex without love but ladies is love den sex ?

Most of the guys will tell the gf that..

..i won't get turn on by anyone else but the one i love..

.. but den...when they start watching porn.

..why will they get turn on ? Alright....

they can its the video or whatsoever.... but..

.one night stand ? Does the guys love them ? I hope not... lols....

Of course...i dun mean that Ladies won't do that..

.they are ladies who do that too...hahas...

but for me myself...i can only do it with the guy that i love.

.. maybe that's me nors...

. having sex and making

love is both different thing....yes....though its

both sexual intercourse....but the different is.

..making love it means... the both of them

love each other and do it....having sex... is like

....doing it with a lady or guy....just like..

.you go to a whore for sex...or ladies go for giglo for sex

...so its really two different thing....lols ! How's the

feeling doing with the someone that you have

no feelings with ? I think.,...it must feel like shit...

. oh well.... that's for me..

..i dunno about the guys and ladies out there....

The reason why i am writting this...is not trying to critisize others.

...is just my thoughts....and.. to me...

THERE'S NOTHING WRONG TO TALK ABOUT SEX !

I just can't understand why...some ppl like to act shy

and dun talk about it...is like...my god !

Normal nors

... if you think in the right way..

.. you won't feel that is dirty ...

some of my guy friends are like... goodness nahz !

Think dirty when we are in this topic....lols !

I wonder why nors... is like...can't the

guys take it as a normal topic ?

Maybe that's guys ? Or maybe is my classmates

too childish...because i do talk to those older guys

...and they won't think that way...

.hummx... Whatever....